The Bowe Family began more than seven generations ago with a farmer in Pasquotank County, North Carolina who was married to an Indian woman. Like most families of that day, they made their living by farming.
The next generation were also farmers, who lived in a section of Pasquotank County known as Weeksville. Bartley and Lizzie Bowe were lovingly called grandpappy and Grandmammy. Their son, William Raleigh Bowe, born in 1889 was to become the next generation of Bowe's. He chose as his help mate, Emma Jane Sutton. She was born in 1894 and was the daughter of William Henry and Ella Jan Sutton.
Papa and Mama wanted to start a family right away, but their first born, a set of twins died at birth. However, God's blessings was showered upon them as they became the parents of ten children; Gladys, Rufus (buddy), Clara Mae (Duke), Elizabeth, William (Dee), Andrew (Tran), Lenora (Hunk), Riddick (Corn), Emma (Tyn), and Julius (Judas or lovingly Juke).
Papa was a quiet, hard working man, never having much to say. It was noted that when he did speak, only a few words were to get his point across. He worked for many years as a farmer, but in his final years he was employed at The Coast Guard Air Station, in Elizabeth, City, North Carolina.
Mama was the opposite of Papa, outspoken, always asking "why". She also was a hard worker doing domestic work during the day and sometimes taking in ironing at night. She worked many days in the slaughter house cleaning beef or pork. Trying her best to bring in extra income that was very much needed, to take care of their family.
They moved to several sections of Pasquotank County before settling on the homestead on Creek Road. they brought their home from T.S. Cooper and through the efforts of the total family working together, Papa paid off the mortgage in January 1944. Mr. Cooper told them "that he never believed that they would be able to pay for their home". In those days, it was uncommon for black families to reach such a goal. Most families that attempted to buy their homes lost them because they could not keep up with payments.
Mama and Papa saw many rough times during their life together. Just to mention one particular day, Tran got his hands in some lye and rubbed it around his eyes, Clara Mae swallowed a straight pin, while at the same time Dee was sick with Typhoid fever and pneumonia. It was at times like these, when they knew their "faith in God was the only thing they could rely on".
Along with the good old days came memories of syrup buckets used for lunch pails, long walks to school, no matter how bad the weather (sometimes as far as five miles), riding to Church or town in the horse and buggy, wearing snuggles, pulling taffy candy and making molasses.
Papa attained two greatest dreams in January 1944 he became the owner of his home and retired from the Coast Guard Air Base. His life was devoted to providing and caring for his family which he did faithfully until his death at the age of 50, in February of 1944, only one short month of attaining his dreams.
Mama remained a widow for many lonely years because she knew she could never repay "Papa". It was about 20 years later that she met and married Charlie A. Sawyer, another quite and meek man who gave her many years of companionship and devotion until his death.
Mama was strong, never allowing her faith to weaken. It was this faith that sustained her through the death of her two husbands and four of her children; Lenora, Clara Mae, Judas and William. She also lost other close members of her family, but never forgot that "The Lord giveth and the Lord taketh away".
Mama knew that "the race was not given to the swift, nor to the strong, but to those who endurth to the end", Ecclesiastics 9:11. She was remembered by most as always fussing or complaining, and it seemed that no one could please her, but in her last days she was meek and humble, thankful, never complaining even when you would catch her holding her heart or when your saw the frowns of pain on her face. She never gave up, as she would lie in the hospital, she continued to exercise her faith be calling on the name of Jesus as the pain and misery weaken her body. She truly endured to the end, which came on March 10th, 1980.
The strength exhibited by mama and Papa can still be seen in the generation of their children and grandchildren that followed. Only faith in God, will sustain us during the rough times, as it did for Mama and Papa. "A good man leaveth an inheritance to his children's children; and the wealth of the sinner is laid up for the just" (Them that live just or according to Gods Word) Proverbs 13:21